Supporting Men in the Electrical Industry: Breaking Free from Domestic Abuse

On average, men are 12 times less likely than women to seek medical assistance, whether for physical or mental health concerns.

This November, as we observe Movember, the Electrical Industries Charity is drawing attention to some of the most pressing challenges faced by men today. Within our industry, where 85% of the workforce is comprised of men, there exists a significant disparity.

Throughout this month, we are focusing on raising awareness about prostate cancer, testicular cancer and the importance of self-examinations, as well as addressing men's mental health. These topics can be difficult to broach, but the Electrical Industries Charity is determined to eliminate the stigma surrounding men's health issues.

While it is often assumed that women are the primary victims of domestic abuse, it is essential to recognise that over 780,000 men experience domestic abuse within their relationships each year. One such individual is Simon, a 43-year-old electrician who reached out to the Electrical Industries Charity. Simon had dedicated 15 years of his life to the sector when the owner of the company decided to sell, leaving Simon jobless. In addition to the stress of his job loss, Simon was enduring an abusive and controlling relationship at home.

Simon and his partner had been married for several years and had three children together, aged 18, 13 and 10. While their relationship had once been happy, it had deteriorated over time, with Simon's wife becoming increasingly volatile. Their marriage was marked by turbulence, with Simon's wife often behaving unreasonably. Furthermore, two of their children had disabilities; the eldest was almost profoundly deaf and the youngest had hip dysplasia. Despite receiving various benefits for herself and their children, Simon's partner refused to share this financial support.

Simon's self-esteem and mental well-being hit rock bottom. His partner would demand that he buy necessities and even forced him to beg for money for food and fuel. Simon had lost all sense of confidence and endured daily humiliation and abuse within his own home.

Living on a small carer's allowance, he found it challenging to leave his home and was reluctant to seek refuge facilities. Job prospects were scarce and his allowance barely covered essential expenses

Simon joined a local support group for men facing domestic violence, which encouraged him to file a police report and engage with social services regarding his children's well-being.

Taking these initial and monumental steps, Simon gained the confidence to approach the charity for assistance with his dwindling finances.

The Electrical Industries Charity provided Simon with a modest financial grant to help cover living expenses while he searched for employment. With this support, Simon was able to escape his abusive situation, temporarily moving in with his sister. The charity continued to lend a sympathetic ear and offered ongoing financial assistance as he worked to rebuild his life.

Simon's ultimate goal was to secure suitable accommodation for his children to live with him. The charity remained committed to ensuring their safety and well-being. Over time, communication between Simon and the charity's welfare team persisted.

Simon is experiencing a significant improvement in his well-being and holds a positive outlook for a brighter future with his children by his side. The Electrical Industries Charity continues to support Simon on his journey and hopes for his continued progress.

If you are living with domestic abuse, it is crucial to seek help. Remember, you are not alone - the Electrical Industries Charity is here to support you.

You can contact our support team at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or call 0800 652 1618.